Road to I Do Wedding Series:

 INTRODUCTION

We're married! It's been almost two months since we tied the knot on 3.11.22 and it still feels surreal that I'm a wife and I get to do life with my best friend forever. I had been anxiously awaiting the big day since the day I became a fiancé on 11.3.20 and it was undoubtfully better than anything I could have dreamed of. 

As someone who enjoys hosting and planning, I took the challenge of being a DIY Bride - we worked to come up with a vision, without outside opinions, so that everything was truly what we wanted. While I learned pretty quickly planning a wedding is much different than hosting a small get together at home (lol) I made it out alive and can now share the experience and all that I've learned throughout the process in hopes of helping future couples & brides!

I. From Girlfriend to Fiancé - How it All Started 

II. Finding Our Venue - Helpful Things to Know and Questions to Ask When Searching for a Wedding Venue on a Budget 

III. Bridesmaid & Groomsman Proposals - How We Asked Our Favorite People to Stand by us on Our Wedding Day

IV. For the Love of Wedding Planning - General Timeline I used & Helpful Tips

V.  NOLA Bachelorette Party - Your Guide and Itinerary for an Amazing Bachelorette Party in New Orleans

VI. Bridal Shower - Party Details I Loved & Registry Ideas for Future Brides

VII. Rehearsal Dinner - DIY Style & "Final Fiesta" themed

VIII. Details & Décor - Some of our Favorite Décor, Signage, and Non-traditional wedding ideas we incorporated

IX. Our Wedding Vendors - The vendors, brands, and entertainment we booked for our wedding day 

X. Our DIY Donut Board - How we created our own donut board as a treat for wedding guests during our reception

XI. The Wedding Party - Fun & Thank you Gift Ideas for Bridesmaids and Groomsmen 

Please enjoy & feel free to leave a comment or reach out to me via email (kaittouchthis@gmail.com) or Instagram if you have any questions! xo

 On the search for different date ideas that don't involve leaving your house? Look no further! Besides the fact that we were hit with a pandemic and forced to stay home, sometimes it's actually nice to be able to do fun things with your person while still in the comfort of your own home - with no getting ready, driving, making reservations, etc. 

Below I've shared 5 at home date nights that my fiance and I have had thoroughly enjoyed. They were all fun for their own reasons and super budget friendly! Whether for Valentine's Day, or the next time you don't have the energy to go "out and about," try one of these date ideas and make sure to let me know how you liked it!

STAY AT HOME DATE NIGHT IDEAS:

1. GET CRAFTY - PURCHASE A FUN & INTERACTIVE CRAFT PROJECT

It's always fun to do something together that you've never done! There are several different "couple's crafts and projects" on the internet. Have you ever thought of creating a casting sculpture of your own hands? We received an awesome kit from Pearl of My Heart and got to create a sculpture of our own. How cool that we now have this for life?! Bonus, it comes with a glass kit and string lights to put in it, which makes it such a fun touch to add to your home. You can USE MY CODE KAIT10 for 10% off your purchase! 

The project itself isn't very time consuming. The kit includes everything you need- you first create the mold, then hold your hands together inside of the mold for 3-9 minutes (that's the tricky but fun part.. you want to try to stay as still as possible), then you create a casting to pour inside and let it sit for 4 hours before you reveal. So during that time you can make dinner, or pick a movie or show(s) to watch while sipping your favorite bottle of wine. Then, you get to reveal the final project and make it yours. The kit also included a stand to add a picture and paint, but we liked it as it was.                

Who doesn't love a wine and/or beer flight?! Technically, this does require leaving the house to grab a few different drinks (unless you order them online for delivery). However, once you have all that you need you can create fun DIY tasting cards and try each while rating them together - OR - you can go one at a time with a blindfold and try to guess which is which and see who wins. I guess it depends on whether you're going for a fun, chill evening or a friendly competition. We did this with another couple for a birthday so that we could feel like we were at a brewery without leaving the house and paying for several flights. 

At first this might sound silly. How? What? However, this was one of my favorite date nights to this day! We were actually supposed to visit Italy & Spain in April 2020 before the pandemic hit and cancelled our plans. So around the time we would've left, we decided to recreate a night in Spain. We went all out - from the outfits we wore, to the dinner we cooked and the drinks we made. We even played Spanish music. 

I highly recommend picking your favorite country, or a country you'd like to visit with your partner and recreating it right in your home. Dress the part and pick an authentic meal that you can look up a recipe for online, along with a cocktail from that country. We did steak and shrimp in a homemade Spanish sauce and a homemade Sangria. We may or may not have also attempted some salsa dancing, lol!

4. GOOD OLD FASHIONED GAME NIGHT 

You can't go wrong with a good ol' night of games! This is a perfect way to have a date night at home. Crack open a bottle of wine, bring out some assorted snacks, and get the games out. Even if you don't have several games at your house, you can look up certain apps. Heads Up is one that you can play against each other right on your phone and keep score, and a deck of cards never fails. Trivia is also fun and there are tons of couple's trivia games. If you want to make it more serious and you're trying to learn more about each other, you can both take a free quiz that will rate your love languages and you can guess each others order before you reveal your results.

We personally prefer game night with at least one other couple because there's more options when you have 4+ people. Check out my "Favorites" section on my Amazon store HERE to view & purchase some of the fun games we enjoy! 

5. DIY PAINT & SIP NIGHT 

Who says you need to go to a "Painting With a Twist" party and pay $70-80 for 2 to paint and sip? You can have yourselves a night, with your own paint, drinks, and playlist of choice right in your very own kitchen at your table (with a nice cover on it of course). You can grab cheap canvases right on Amazon, along with a paint/paint brush kit, or we had rocks that were given to us and actually decided to paint the rocks to put outside. I have to say my fiance surprised me and did much better than expected (check out his peaceful dove, lol he was going for a tranquil look) 

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These are obviously just a few of so many fun ideas! The fun part, too, is that you can choose how you want to dress. You'll likely go for a comfy, cozy look if you're doing something crafty and relaxing with a movie, but if you're bringing a specific country to your house for the night then hey you might throw on a fancy outfit and dress to impress. The options are endless! 

I'd love to know what some of your favorite date night ideas are, or if you plan to try any of these at home. Let me know in the comments! Have fun y'all!

-Kait xo 

 Hey friends! I'm so excited for this blog post. Below I'll be outlining all of the details and the itinerary from my recent road trip through Arizona into Las Vegas, Nevada. You will see I have an Intro, Planning Tips, and Our Itinerary.  *Disclaimer: I am no travel agent or expert and there were several other places that we would have added if there was more time (some of which I'll also share below); I'm simply sharing our personal trip and the amazing scenery and experiences we got to share, in hopes that it can help others heading to the area!   

To start: Whether in South Jersey, or in Pennsylvania on the outside of the city - I've lived in the Greater Philadelphia area my entire life. I've seen my fair share of mountains, sunsets, etc. but I had never seen an Arizona sunset (yes, they are different), or a desert in general. When our Europe trip was canceled in April due to Covid, I went quite a while without thinking about travel at all. Eventually I began thinking of places within the country that my boyfriend and I could road trip through and be pretty isolated from others. Arizona was the first to come to my mind. I had always seen scenic pictures of the Grand Canyon, Horseshoe bend, Sedona, etc. online and was always in awe at their beauty. Get this - the pictures don't even do any justice!! I truly enjoyed every single place that we went; even the drives between each destination, down long roads in the middle of the desert were so pleasing and beautiful. Four hours felt more like thirty minutes. To top it all off, I got engaged and became a fiance on the first full day of the trip! So needless to say it was an absolute blast and I couldn't wait to share with you all once I got home and got my life together... which took a bit longer than expected, sorry!

Planning Ahead: When we decided we wanted to explore Arizona, I first began to research. That's definitely the first step and might be why you are here. I looked up "places to see in Arizona" "Arizona road trip" and all that touristy stuff to try to compile some places and then see what the distances between them were. I highly recommend doing that so you have an idea of the places you want to see. There are also several places in AZ to fly into (Phoenix, Flagstaff, Grand Canyon, etc.) and that helps determine what order you should visit places. We knew that we would fly into Phoenix, because the prices looked the cheapest lol *shrugs*. So we knew we'd explore Phoenix, and we also wanted to see Sedona, Page (Antelope Canyons, Lake Powell, Horseshoe bend) and the Grand Canyon. We also wanted to have at least one night in Las Vegas since we had never been, so gathering an idea of what we wanted to see helped build the itinerary. First step is to definitely figuring out which airport you plan to fly into whether any of the Arizona ones, or Las Vegas. Then, determine your personal must-sees and figure out geographically what order you should do that in. Once you do that, you can see if anything fits in between or if there's anything outside of that you would like to do and have time for. I do wish that we had gotten to Utah because it was only about 2 hours from Page, AZ but we didn't want to overwhelm ourselves and figured we'd be back again! We left on a Monday and flew home early Saturday morning. However, if you do have the time I'd definitely make your way to Utah and check out Mt. Zion.

A few other tips, if you're flying in we use the Hopper app to monitor flights so we know when the best time to book is. Once the flight was booked, I researched rental car sites because I knew we'd get our car after landing for the duration of the trip. I looked on Auto Rentals to compare car prices for the dates/airports that I needed and Alamo had the best prices during the time we were going. I really liked that the price you see online is the set cost and nothing changes, which did hold true. The customer service rep did ask if we wanted to upgrade to a larger or luxury car for a bit more and we kindly declined. Once we got to the garage, we got to pick between several cars (some actually ended up being luxury) and all were perfect size for all of our luggage - I definitely recommend going with a compact car if it's going to be 2 people, unless you really like jeeps, trucks, etc. Our car got us everywhere we needed to go each day and once we got to Las Vegas (our last stop) we actually returned the car the night before we flew home, and just pre-ordered an Uber to the airport the next morning since the flight was so early. I also recommend doing this is if you're staying fairly close to the airport and leaving earlier in the day because you are charged per day for the rental car. 

Note: We stayed at Air BnBs the entire time, except for the lodge we stayed at in the Grand Canyon, and I'm so glad we did! If you have never used Air BnB, click here to SAVE $65 off a qualified booking!

Now The Fun Part: Below is our exact itinerary that worked amazingly for us. I hope this can help some of you headed to the area! I also listed additional recommendations/suggestions beyond what we were able to do. 

 OUR COMPLETE ITINERARY: 

DAY 1 - PHOENIX, AZ

• Flew from Philadelphia > Phoenix (arrived around 2 pm - keep in mind AZ is 2 hours behind)
• Landed and picked up our rental car from the airport + headed to our Phoenix Air Bnb
• Grabbed few groceries, case of water, etc. for the week (not necessary but we did lol) 
• Lunch from In-N-Out Burger , obviously lol!
• Got dinner & drinks at Majerle's Sports Grill . If you're looking to watch a sports game it's not bad. My fiance wanted to catch a football game, but if you are going for food choose somewhere else :) 

                                         

DAY 2 - PHOENIX, AZ  > SEDONA, AZ  [about 2 hrs.]

• Caught sunrise at Lookout Mountain Preserve (pictured above)
• Grabbed breakfast at The Original Breakfast house
• Coffee Run: Dutch Bros Coffee (I told them it was my first time there and I got one on the house! So good if you're a coffee lover and such friendly customer service)
• We had a sunset air balloon ride planned for 3-7 pm which is why we stayed in Phoenix, but was canceled due to heat (Tip: I'd recommend booking sunrise to be safe)
• Instead we went to Desert Botanical Garden and that is where I was unexpectedly proposed to! It was beautiful; there are different paths to walk around and a little restuarant with food and drinks on site
• Drove to Sedona, AZ + Arrived at AirBnB
• We were exhausted so we didn't go into the town to eat; just sipped wine and ate snacks we already had by the fire we made, which was so relaxing. Several places I looked up had fire pits available. Nice touch to a perfect day!

• We woke up and left around 7 AM (we were still stuck on Eastern time so we typically woke up early & went to bed at a decent time) and drove to hike at Devil's bridge trail . Devil's Bridge is the largest natural sandstone arch in the Sedona area so if you're down to get active I recommend! 
• make sure to stop and see the blue McDonald's arch (only in the world) on your drive to or from!
• Ate lunch at Sound Bites Grill (make sure to eat on the deck outside for an amazing view; you are eating right next to the mountains!) 
• Walked our food off at Tlaquepaque Arts & Shopping Village
• Drove to Page, AZ 
• headed straight to Horseshoe Bend once we got there, right before sunset (Page is super small town so everything is in same general area for the most part). This is a beautiful landmark to see in Page!
• Checked into our Page AirBnB and ordered take out from El Tapatio mexican restaurant

      

  

• Headed to our Lake Powell and Antelope Canyon tour which was breathtaking. 
• Due to Covid, large boat tours were canceled; the only way to get to the canyons were by kayak. Kayaking through the crystal clear lake and canyons was magical. I was glad we kayaked as opposed to a boat tour. 
• Grabbed quick lunch and festive beer at The Bird House (we STILL rave about those Honey butter tenders! We didn't want a large meal because we were going to have dinner in Flagstaff which is about 2 hrs 15 mins from The Bird House) 
• Once we got to Flagstaff, we walked around a bit and then went to the Lumberyard Brewery, where we each got a flight and a bite. If you like to try different beers it's nice, but the food was pretty basic - nothing special.
• After dinner, we made our way to Grand Canyon area to Red Feather lodge. I was a little skeptical because I'm not really a hotel person. However, we checked right in and had no problems with our hotel room; the beds were actually nice and comfy. There's very limited Air bnbs in the area and this was super affordable and close to the National Park.
• *     * If you have time, I'd recommend traveling about 2 hours from Page , AZ to Monument Valley before making your way to The Grand Canyon. That's another great sight that I wish we got to see!

   

 GRAND CANYON, AZ  > LAS VEGAS, NV [about 4 hrs. 25 mins]

• We woke up and headed straight to The Grand Canyon South Rim
• This requires some research because aside from having different rims, there's also many different points. We decided on Yavapai and Mather point, both beautiful and easy to get to the lookout. If we had more time, we would have done more. 
• We then made our way to Vegas baby!
• We made sure to check out Route 66 along the way and stopped at Mr. D'z Route 66 Diner for lunch. Our waitress was the best and the burgers and homemade root beer were both great! 
• We went to Seven Magic Mountains in Las Vegas before heading to our place of stay.
• We arrived to our Las Vegas Air Bnb and relaxed for a bit before returned our rental car to the airport and Ubered back to take on The Strip, which was walking distance from our place! 
• Of course had to get a nice big drink from Fat Tuesday :)
• ** We were trying to make it to Las Vegas with time to relax, pack up and pop some champagne ;) to end off the trip before we went out, BUT if you have time I've heard and read that Bearizona is a cool place to drive and see bear, etc. and is on the way from Grand Canyon to Vegas. I also recommend stopping at Hoover Dam on the way to Vegas, you will pass it as you're driving.

DAY 6- LAS VEGAS, NV > PHILADELPHIA (HOME) 

• All good things must come to an end right? We woke up and got right into our Uber to head to the airport and that's all she wrote! 

As stated before, we had the time of our lives! I've been asked several times what my favorite part of the trip is (besides getting engaged, of course) and it is truly so difficult to choose. Each destination had something different about it that made it so uniquely beautiful. You have to see it for yourself to believe it! Anyways, if you've made it this far thank you for reading. Please let me know in the comments if you are planning to go there and use any part of the itinerary. I'd love to hear! 

Until next post!

- Kait  xo

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Tis' the season for wine sipping and cheese eating! Not that this requires a specific season, but now more than ever, it seems Charcuterie boards are the new, hip thing. After trying one for myself, I completely understand why! They take very little time, they look super cute and classy, and they are the perfect addition to a glass (or more) of wine. With the pandemic, it is also a great way to try something new and host a small group of friends, instead of having to go out to a winery or somewhere public (cheaper, too!) The term "charcuterie" refers to assembling cured meats, for example: salami, prosciutto, bacon. However, let's be real to most of us.. it's a board filled with cheeses, meats, nuts, snacks, fruits and basically anything to please the eye and stomach. It can seem like a difficult task or like it requires much time, effort and money, but I promise it does not. Read below for tips on assembling your own & what types of goodies to include!

Assembling: 

Board: First, choose your board or what you want to put your food on. You don't need the finest "charcuterie board." I've seen people use large plates, and this is actually a cutting board. The goal is to not have much of the board showing any way. 

Start Big: Once you determine what you're putting it on, you can start your display. Start with your dishes and bowls if you are using any, as well as your cheeses and meats (these are the foundation). Spread them out in different places on your board. 

Next, I lay out the next biggest space filler, which is crackers and bread and then it's as simple as filling in the gaps. This is the most fun part because you can get super creative. I like to strategically separate different colors, for ex. I wouldn't put a red salsa or bruschetta next to pepperonis because they're both red. I can't exactly say how to do this part because it's totally your preference and what you like!

Observe: Stand back, take a look, and if something seems "off" just move it to a different spot. 

Tips: Try to use a variety of colors for a nice, vibrant look. Blueberries would have been a nice touch to mine, as I didn't include any blues. Another suggestion is to keep simple; I listed out quite a few suggestions, but just as a helpful guide- not because you should buy them all. Select a couple from a few categories to start. Lastly, try not to overthink (says the biggest over thinker I know) & Enjoy - in reality it's (hopefully) going to end up empty any way! 

Have fun y'all! Be sure to share your pictures with me on Instagram if you try one

In the beginning of this year, I often felt myself getting really down, especially after the loss of George Floyd. It is hard to be consistently filled with joy and happiness when you are watching lives end because of the color of their skin. As a bi-racial woman in her mid-20's, I kept thinking about future conversations I will have to have if I ever have a son, or if I would even be smart to bring a child into this crazy world. I could go on and on... however, after much reflection and conversation, I realized even when life's circumstances are extremely unfavorable, life is short and time is only passing us by. It is so important to try to find the light even when we are in the dark. It was a struggle at first, but I tried to focus on the blessings this year has brought. For example, being forced to quarantine allowed me more free time then I have had in years, lol!! I figured I better use that time to my advantage. I started cooking like I never had before, shoot I became a little chef, bartender, and baker, ha! I got back into fitness and got on a steady weekly routine and I started brainstorming ways to really jump back into content creating and stay consistent without burning out as I often found myself doing in the past. My main goal going forward is to expand to more lifestyle content, not just natural hair. My story and inspiration to create and empower stems from my natural hair journey, but my goal is to share content beyond that. I have worked hard to create and share a mission and brand that I can stick to.

Of course I felt like I couldn't get back into the swing of things without a GIVEAWAY because y'all know I love to share things with my social media fam, especially if they are free ;) I am so grateful for Mixed Chicks hair company for sponsoring my first giveaway back! This is the first company to ever sponsor a giveaway for me in 2016, the first brand I ever received a check from, and ironically they are also the first natural products I ever used on my hair. When I was younger and saw the words "Mixed Chicks" on a product, I remember feeling like they were designed just for me. I just had to have the whole product line. Years later, I still use and keep these products on my shelves. My favorite is and will probably always be the leave-in conditioner. The giveaway prize is a beautiful basket filled with products and goodies worth $100+ that will be shipped out to whoever wins. The giveaway will end on Sunday Oct 11th at 9 PM EST. Make sure to enter if you haven't. The rules can be found on my Instagram page (click here). GOOD LUCK!

I'm so happy to be back & doing what I love! Check out my updated 'About Me' page and please let me know if there's specific things you'd like to see, suggestions, etc. 

-Kait xo